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    你覺得生幾個孩子壓力最大?(雙語)

    2018-10-23 10:50

    來源:紐約郵報

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      When it comes to parenting, third time’s not the charm.

      說到養育孩子,養三胎就不那么有吸引力了。

      A survey by “Today” found that moms who have three children are more stressed than those who have fewer kids. It also found that moms who have more than four children actually report lower levels of stress.

      《今日》的一項調查發現,有三個孩子的媽媽比那些孩子少于三個的媽媽壓力更大。調查還發現,有四個以上孩子的媽媽其壓力實際上更小。

      “There’s just not enough space in your head for perfectionism when you get to four or more kids,” Dr. Janet Taylor told “Today.” “The more children you have, the more confident you become in your parenting abilities. You have to let go … and then you’re just thankful when they all get to school on time.”

      珍妮特泰勒博士告訴《今日》:“當你有4個或4個以上的孩子時,你的大腦沒有足夠的空間去追求完美主義。孩子越多,你對自己的育兒能力就越有信心。你必須放手……然后,當他們都按時到校時,你就會心存感激?!?

      More than 7,000 mothers were surveyed, and moms on average reported their stress level at 8.5 on a scale of one to 10. Meanwhile, 46 percent say their partners were more stressful than their kids. Even worse, 75 percent of moms say their stress comes from the pressure they put on themselves to save face in front of other parents.

      超過7000名母親接受了調查,母親們平均反饋她們的壓力水平在8.5分(滿分為10分)。與此同時,46%的人說他們的伴侶比他們的孩子更有壓力。更糟糕的是,75%的媽媽說她們的壓力來自于她們在其他父母面前為了挽回面子而給自己施加的壓力。

      “You always hear about the mommy wars, but I feel like we’re judging ourselves more harshly than anyone else,” said Jill Smokler, owner of blog “Scary Mommy.” She has three kids and says it’s the most stressful number.

      “嚇人媽媽”博客的博主吉爾.斯莫克勒說:“你經常會聽到媽媽之間的戰爭,但我覺得我們對自己的評價比任何人都要苛刻?!彼腥齻€孩子,她說這是壓力值最大的數字。

      “Going from one to two was an easy, breezy transition,” said Maryland-based Smokler. “Two to three, everything was turned upside down. I did not feel like I had it together…just crossing the street and not being able to physically hold all their hands I found tremendously stressful.”

      馬里蘭州的斯莫克勒說:“從1到2是一個簡單、輕松的過渡。2到3,一切都顛倒了。我覺得我形神分離……即便只是過馬路,無法握住他們所有人的手,我都覺得壓力很大?!?

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